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Well just make do.
At the birthday party of one of my younger siblings, my mother prepared to top the off cake with ice cream. The upright freezer, the familys pride and joy, resided in the dining room. On this day it had somehow been left ajar. The ice cream was melted. I remember the alarm registered on my mothers face. And yet in seconds, she turned and asked enthusiastically, Have you ever had ice cream soup? It is very delicious. She sent me to get little bowls and spoons and it was served up and eaten without fuss.
It seems to me making do is an art, part desperation, part acceptance and part creativity or reframing. It usually happens when theres not enough of some resource such as money, skill, space or even hard ice cream. Making do can be a reluctant accommodation, but it can also be an adventure, and lead to surprising delights. Examples Making do often grows internal strength.
Then there is always the question of when we shouldnt make do. For example, one of my kitchen cupboards only stays open with duct tape. I think Ill find someone to put in a new hinge for me! The ability to make do can lead to putting up with stuff or people unnecessarily. When should we make do and when should we strive for better? My mother embroidered a beautiful Serenity Prayer for me which hangs on my wall and provides good guidance:
Please join me for a 45-minute telegathering to explore making do more deeply. Tuesday, March 8, at noon Eastern (11:00 a.m. Central, 10:00 a.m. MT, 9:00 a.m. Pacific) 1-218-862-1300 PIN 276583. No need to register
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Reach me: 1-888-907-HOPE (4673)or e-mail sharon@hopellc.com. I am a personal and executive coach and would be happy to offer you a complimentary coaching session by phone.
Sharon Eakes | 720 Maple Lane | Sewickley, PA 15143
FOCUS: Making Do
Disciplines: Personal Mastery, Systems Thinking, Team Learning
My mother
Thoughts
What is "Making Do"?
The Downside?
God grant me the serenity
To accept the things I cannot change
To change the things I can
And the wisdom to know the difference
Coaching Questions
Invitations:
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